Christians and Atheist why dont you all just make out and get along?

Every Q. I come across is geared at each other around here in an argumentative manner... Its a constant battle and both sides are so unbelievably stubborn! There is a lot of fighting and put downs and that's about it! Personally I do not label myself as christian or atheist.. Im just a person who believes something far greater than us created this universe. It would be nice if we can all come together from both sides of the road and simply compare experiences/notes with one another in an adult manner. The reason everyone is so damn mixed up is because of generations of dumbifying traditions and lies and lots of suppressed and lost history. Maybe we are something more, something better. How can we ever come to a logical conclusion w/all this bickering. I love hearing atheist's reasons on why religion sucks and I love hearing christians explain why God is real. In turn, I gather my own logic together and do some research on my own. That's the way it should be. We should be trying to figure out why the hell so much records on mans real history has been hidden from us by our governments. What is it that they really know and what are they not telling us. Its time to stop being trapped sheep biting amongst each other... Its time to start looking at the big picture. We are all tered and this is what they want... they want to keep us from truly being united cause then the "sheep" might actually take their power back!